When running Resource Monitor on Windows 2008 R2, some TCP connections are grayed out and others are solid black. What does it mean if they are grayed out?
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Grey entries are only shown briefly in Resource Monitor to indicate the TIME_WAIT state has ended and the port is fully released. In short, it's just a helpful breadcrumb that gives you a way to verify that yes, a port has finished the release process.