Force explicit deletion of a Java object

Question

I'm working on a Java server that handles a LOT of very dense traffic. The server accepts packets from clients (often many megabytes) and forwards them to other clients. The server never explicitly stores any of the incoming/outgoing packets. Yet the server continually runs into OutOfMemoryException exceptions.

I added System.gc() into the message passing component of the server, hoping that memory would be freed. Additionally, I set the heap size of the JVM to a gigabyte. I'm still getting just as many exceptions.

So my question is this: how can I make sure that the megabyte messages aren't being queued indefinitely (despite not being needed)? Is there a way for me to call "delete" on these objects to guarantee they are not using my heap space?

        try
        {
           while (true)
            {
               int r = generator.nextInt(100);//generate a random number between 0 and 100
                Object o =readFromServer.readObject();
                sum++;
                // if the random number is larger than the drop rate, send the object to client, else
                //it will be dropped
                if (r > dropRate)
                {
                    writeToClient.writeObject(o);
                    writeToClient.flush();
                    numOfSend++;
                    System.out.printf("No. %d send\n",sum);
                }//if

            }//while
        }//try

Answer 1

Object streams hold references to every object written/read from them. This is because the serialization protocol allows back references to objects that appeared earlier in the stream. You might be able to still use this design but use writeUnshared/readUnshared instead of writeObject/readObject. I think, but am not sure, that this will prevent the streams from keeping a reference to the object.

As Cowan says, the reset() method is also in play here. The safest thing to do is probably use writeUnshared immediately followed by reset() when writing to your ObjectOutputStreams