How do I show that the WebServer instantiates a View and gets back control of the flow? Maybe I'm not using the right type of diagram? Thanks a bunch!
The diagram from Ruben's answer is correct, but general UML answer is missing. It creates the other lifeline when the "create" line (dashed in this case) connects to the box/label/top of the created life line. From example: WebServer in it's action creates a View and the action done by the view creates the Widget.
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There are also several diagrams here.
The UML 2.2 specifications (superstructure) has an example on page 474, Figure 14.11 is their canonical syntax/notation reference. And on page 495 in the notation section it states "Object creation Message has a dashed line with an open arrow." This is further defined in the UML as the message type is an enumeration called MessageSort. One value is:
"• asynchSignal - The message was generated by an asynchronous send action.createMessage - The message designating the creation of another lifeline object."