According to Wikipedia,
The height of a tree is the length of the path from the root to the deepest node in the tree. A (rooted) tree with only one node (the root) has a height of zero (or one).
I dont get it - is it zero or one (or both)?
It just an assuption you make for the recursive description of the height of a binary tree. You can consider a tree composed by just a node either with 0 height or with 1 height.
If you really want to think about it somehow you can think that
This is just to describe how much height the smallest tree has, then in any case whenever you add a descending node you will add also a related edge so it will increase accordingly.
In the example provided in wikipedia:
This tree can have height 4 (nodes) or 3 (edges). It depends if you are counting it by edges or by nodes.