I have a dedicated server with 256GB RAM
6 CPUs (12 Threads)
on Hetzner, and it is located in Germany. I have CENTOS 7.5. EA4.
My problem is with SSL. Every day for about 2 hours, we have 40 requests in one second and finishing requests takes about 20 seconds. Non-SSL takes 0.5 or less. Here is an example.
From 13:00 to 15:30 (UTC+4), SSL requests take the most time. The problem is evident when you open this link with SSL and without.
I have WHM available. I've noticed ModSecurity and wonder if it might be the problem. I've applied most of the settings provided here, but there is not much regarding SSL.
In case certificates are the reason for all of this:
I had the same issue and after a lot of digging I found that the problem was caused by the fact that I had mod_unique_id installed.
Further checking shows that the module is a requirement for mod_security. I did remove mod_security at first which did not make any change and only after removing the mod_unique_id module as well things started to fly.
Hope this helps.