The csv file to be processed does not fit into the memory. How can one read ~20K random lines of it to do basic statistics on the selected data frame?
You can also just do it in the terminal with perl.
perl -ne 'print if (rand() < .01)' biglist.txt > subset.txt
This won't necessarily get you exactly 20,000 lines. (Here it'll grab about .01 or 1% of the total lines.) It will, however, be really really fast, and you'll have a nice copy of both files in your directory. You can then load the smaller file into R however you want.