With all the buzz around WebSockets, it's pretty hard to find a good walkthrough on how to use them with an Apache server on Google.
We're developing a plugin, in PHP (symfony2), which will run from time to time kind of a chat instance. And we find WebSockets more interesting, standard and quick than AJAX for this matter. The thing is, we don't have much sysadmin ressources in our group and we find hard to gather good informations on the following matters:
Thank you very much,
ps: we'll link back to your blog/site as we'll make a technical/informational post on our devblog about this part of our app.
Thank you again!
As @zaf states you are more likely to find a standalone PHP solution - not something that runs within Apache. That said there is a apache WebSocket module.
However, the fundamental problem is that Apache wasn't built with maintaining many persistent connections in mind. It, along with PHP, is built on the idea that requests are made and responses are quickly sent back. This means that resources can very quickly be used up if you are holding requests open and you're going to need to look into horizontal scaling pretty quickly.
Personally I think you have two options:
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