I want to ask you to provide me with some articles (maybe books), which you possibly have found very convincing criticising the OOP methodology.
I have read some in the WWW on this topic and I didn't really find a 'definitive demotivator'.
It's not much about my personal attitude to the OOP, but I really would like to have something constructive, rigorous foundation for any kind of discussion and just abstract thinking.
You can post some original research too, but please be very constructive (as my personal request).
Which version of OOP? Alan Kay's original vision? The bastardized modern form of it that misses the point entirely and thus encumbers us with bizarre access control, member variables, etc? Inheritance-centric? Prototype-based? Compositional OOP?
Each form of OOP has its strengths and its weaknesses; its advocates and its detractors; its domains of utility and its domains of uselessness. There's nothing magical about OOP that makes it the Killer Paradigm and there's nothing infernal about it that makes it the Killer (of Programmers) Paradigm.
I can't really point you to any books or articles that killed my interest in OOP as a Silver Bullet (as opposed to one of many techniques I can use to keep my projects survivable). I can point to the funniest critique of a specific brand of OOP, however: Steve Yegge's classic "Execution in the Kingdom of Nouns".