What good resources exist for understanding database tuning on the major engines and advancing your knowledge in that area?
The idea of this question is to collect the shed load of resources that invariably exist, so that people can have a "one stop" knowledge shop of the good, peer approved resources.
General SQL
MySQL
Oracle
MS SQL Server
Sybase SQL Anywhere
JDBC
Oracle's very own Tom Kyte has a fantastic repository on every type of performance problem imaginable on http://asktom.oracle.com. He usually takes the time to recreate specific problems and gives very detailed explanations.