I got excited when I saw the following post but it doesn't cover my case: Mount an FTP server locally
Is there any way for me to create symbolic links on a remote server without having SSH access, possibly via some FTP hack?
Use a script.
If you have sh, bash or csh available, then you're nearly as good as if you had an ssh access. If you don't, then most other scripting languages allow you to create symbolic links on your server.
For example, in PHP you would use the symlink() function:
symlink("myOriginalFileOrDirectory", "mySymbolicLink");
I just had the same problem, and this is how I easily solved it :)